Ask a Model Minority Suicide: Hello
icon_crop.jpgI don’t claim to be dead. But I do feel a bit Ghost of Christmas Future, cropping up to show you your options -- because if you’re the person I’m trying to reach, then this future is an...
View Article'Too Asian?': Responding to the Question
icon_crop.jpgSo I know I said it'd be four weeks until the second AAMMS post, but...read more
View ArticleResource Guide
icon_crop.jpgHello, reader. The below is a work-in-progress: starter dough and nothing like a full list. But hopefully this opening gambit will inspire those with further information to add their...
View Article72-Hour Hold: Part 1
icon_crop.jpgI try to hide my hands. Black-haired parents with little children wide-eyed as I am led to the car, cuffed behind my back. At least he is kind and asks another cop to give us a ride to his...
View Article72-Hour Hold: Part 2
icon_crop.jpgI am given two sets of light blue pajamas, cotton pants and short-sleeve shirt with snap buttons, and except for the Marin General Hospital printed on the pocket, they’re not unattractive,...
View Article72-Hour Hold: Part 3
icon_crop.jpgThere is a breakfast call at around 7 a.m., but I ask my roommate for the time and decline the meal, telling the staff that I don’t eat breakfast. By 8 a.m. I am up though, because it...
View Article72-Hour Hold: Part 4
icon_crop.jpgI did not want to attend Group Therapy, strongly averse to the idea of sharing personal information (even if strategically fictionalized) with the shufflers and hunchers, the lounging men...
View Article72-Hour Hold: Part 5
icon_crop.jpgThe phone is in as visible an area as there is, and I am petrified that crying will make me seem unstable, prove that I am only faking, and they will keep me now even longer, but even as...
View ArticleLetters from Readers: 'My Self-Preservation, or How I Got to These Thirties'
icon_crop.jpgThis month's AAMMS post was submitted as a comment from a reader. Since I'm not doing this alone -- this column is about collective wisdom -- I'm going to be featuring readers' stories...
View ArticleHow to Choose Your Therapist
icon_crop.jpgIt’s perfectly normal to meet several therapists before deciding on one with whom you feel a good rapport. As with dating, “that didn’t suck” is not a high enough bar.read more
View ArticleDeciding Not to Bail
icon_crop.jpgIn honor of Asian Pacific American Mental Health Day, AAMMS revisits its roots and considers the impact of a mantra like "It Gets Better."read more
View ArticleRemembering Danny
25.dannychen_corkylee.wreath.jpg A funeral wreath encircles a photo of Chen on top of the hearse at his funeral on October 13, 2011. Photography by Corky Lee. Memorializing a US Army private whose...
View ArticleDavid Phan's Suicide Sparks Grief, Anger and Call for Justice
davidage7.jpg"I had a great life but I must leave." These were the last words written by David Q. Phan, a 14-year-old Vietnamese American junior high school student from Taylorsville, Utah, before he...
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